Authored by BlueAngel on
Wednesday, February 09, 2005
Oops another urban legend pops up!
I have two sources on this one. I must apologize for this--at the time I did try to check out the sources and found none. This time when I got the e-mail from Daryl, Found his site:Trend Micro: http://www.trendmicro.com/vinfo/haoxes/hoaxDetails.asp?HName=Phone+%2377+Hoax&Page=4
Snopes.com : Http://search.atomz.com/search/?sp-q=Cell+pHONE+%23+77&sp-a=00062d45-sp00000000&sp-adv...
It ocurred on the Cell Phone Dial 77 for Help on the San Antonio Polio Survivors' Association posting by me.
THE FOLLOWING IS MOST DEFFINITELY A HOAX!!
CELL PHONE DIAL 77 FOR HELP
Authored by BlueAngel on
Thursday, July 29, 2004
THE FOLLOWING IS PRESENTED FOR YOUR INFORMATION FOR YOUR PERSONAL USE OF SOMEONE AMONG YOUR FAMILY OR FRIENDS
----Author unknown----
----Source from a friend's e-mail----
Subject: #77 on your cell phone
I knew about the red light on cars but not the #77.
It was about 1 PM in the afternoon, and Lauren was driving to visit a
friend. An UNMARKED police car pulled up behind her and put his lights on.
Lauren's parents have 4 children (high school and college age) and
have always told them never to pull over for an unmarked car on the
side of the road, but rather wait until they get to a gas station, etc., so
Lauren had actually listened to her parents advice, and promptly called
#77 on her cell phone to tell the police dispatcher that she would not
pull over right away.
She proceeded to tell the dispatcher that there was an unmarked police
car with a flashing red light on his rooftop behind. The dispatcher
checked see if there were police cars where she was and there weren't,
and he had her to keep driving, remain calm and that he had back up
already on the way. Ten minutes later 4 cop cars surrounded her and the unmarked car behind her. One policeman went to her side and the others surrounded the car behind.
They pulled the guy from the car and tackled him to the ground. The man was a convicted rapist and wanted for other crimes.
I never knew about the #77 Cell Phone Feature, but especially for a
woman alone in a car, you should not pull over for an unmarked car.
Apparently police have to respect your right to keep going to a "safe"place. You obviously need to make some signals that you acknowledge them i.e. put on your hazard lights) or call #77 like Lauren did.
Too bad the cell phone companies don't give you this little bit of
wonderful information. So, now it's your turn to let your friends know
about #77.
Send this to every woman you know, it may save a life.
And to you guys, send to the female friends and family members you
have, it could save their life too....
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TOO BAD THE ABOVE IS A HOAX: THE IDEA IS A GOOD ONE !
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Authored by BlueAngel on
Wednesday, February 02, 2005
This little bit was evidently found by a Willie Janik and put on the Internet by him to his friends and forwarded on by other friends to their friends,etc. So now you are blessed with this rendition without pictures--I haven't learned how to insert the pictures yet. At any rate I hope that you enjoy it.
This also reminds me of another rambling mind that I reprinted somewhat earlier from another Internet source that starts out essentially the same but does add some other reminders of the so-called golden age events.
It, also, kinda reminds me of the Ramblings and Observations of a Retired RN. Just thought you all might enjoy another type of a Rambling Mind
Ramblings of a Retired Mind -
I was thinking about how a status symbol of today is those cell phones that everyone has clipped on. I can't afford one. So, I'm wearing my garage door opener.
You know, I spent a fortune on deodorant before I realized that people didn't like me anyway.
I was thinking about old age and decided that it is 'when you still have something on the ball, but you are just too tired to bounce it'.
I thought about making a fitness movie, for folks my age, and call it "Pumping Rust."
I have gotten that dreaded furniture disease. That's when your chest is falling into your drawers!
I know, when people see a cat's litter box, they always say, "Oh, have you got a cat?"
Just once I want to say, "No, it's for company!"
Employment application blanks always ask 'who is to be notified in case of an emergency.' I think you should write, "A Good Doctor!"
Why do they put pictures of criminals up in the Post Office? What are we supposed to do -- write to these men? Why don't they just put their pictures on the postage stamps so the mailmen could look for them while they deliver the mail? Or better yet, arrest them while they are taking their pictures!
I was thinking about how people seem to read the Bible a whole lot more as they get older. Then, it dawned on me, they were cramming for their finals. As for me, I'm just hoping God grades on the curve.
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Authored by BlueAngel on
Tuesday, February 01, 2005
Elder Care Tips: Mastering The Eldercare Maze(TM)
This newsletter (for February 1st 2005) is about "Dementia" with examples of how it effects the elderly person(s) you love and how to meet the problem without too much trauma for yourself and your loved one(s). There are quite a few good ones!
That Horrid Woman Stole My Teeth: Paranoia and Dementia
As a rank beginner in the field of eldercare I was excited to finally be turned loose to make my first independent home visit. It went well, I thought, until I returned to the office. At the door I was met by my supervisor. She informed me that she had just logged an official complaint from the client I had left not 20 minutes earlier: The client's teeth were missing. The teeth were there before I arrived, and they were now missing. The conclusion was obvious.
I was devastated. Later the dentures were found by the client's daughter, wrapped in a napkin and stuffed in the toe of a slipper. Everyone had a good laugh, but I'll never forget the feeling of shock and indignation I felt at being unjustly accused. Lucky for me it was teeth (who would want those?) and not an expensive piece of jewelry that went temporarily missing.
People who have Alzheimer's or other dementing illnesses must struggle with their personal reality that every moment is a new moment. There is often no memory of the moment that went before. Things inexplicably disappear when you have no memory of having moved them. When your things are constantly disappearing, the "logical" solution is to hide them in a safe place where no one will find them. And then they are lost again.
When your memory perversely retains the information that something is scheduled, but you can't remember whether this is the time or the day, you will ask someone. And ask, and ask, because you can't remember that you already asked or what the answer was.
Just try to imagine how frustrating and frightening it must be to live in this confusing world where things disappear, someone else is in control of your money, conversations often don't make sense, or your brain doesn't recognize the home where you've lived for many years. Is it any wonder that suspicions and "paranoia" often accompany dementia?
Things That May Help:
Don't Argue - Arguing with a perceived "fact" may increase agitation and anger, and may lead to a catastrophic reaction. Instead, acknowledge the feeling: "I know it's frightening when you can't find your _______. I'll help you look for it."
Make a List of Favorite Hiding Places - Never throw out the trash without first checking for hidden items.
Try Distraction - A new activity in a different room may divert attention from the anxiety of the moment. This rarely works if emotions have escalated, however.
Keep Spares - If certain items are disappearing time after time, keep extras on hand to use until you find the "lost" item. Buy in pairs or even triples if possible.
Try to Keep Caregivers Consistent - New faces may be targets for suspicion because the explanation of who they are and why they are there is forgotten.
Avoid Unnecessarily Announcing Appointments or Events - If your elder worries excessively about missing an appointment, wait until it's time to get ready to go.
Reduce or Eliminate Clutter - Remove excess items from closets, cupboards and drawers. "Lost" items stashed in a shoe are easier to find if their are only two pair to check.
Remove or Lock Up Valuables - This will protect aides and family members from suspicion.
Advise Family Members and Home Workers About Typical Behaviors - Let them know that they may be accused and that they should not take accusations personally.
Schedule a Medical Check-Up - Rule out other medical and psychiatric problems or the possible side-effects of medications already prescribed. In some cases where paranoid behavior is causing major problems additional drug treatment may be appropriate.
Listen Carefully - If your elder with dementia has a new behavior or a new concern, listen. Sometimes things really are stolen. Sometimes abuse is real.
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When I was younger I could remember anything, whether it happened or not.
Mark Twain
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Another Way To Check Medication Safety
With the rash of recent headlines concerning drugs being pulled off the shelves, patients are looking for additional sources to check on the safety of their medications. PhRMA, the pharmaceutical-industry trade group, has made the results of clinical studies from the last two years available to both patients and doctors at http://www.clinicalstudyresults.org The purpose of the database is to make clinical trial results for U.S.-marketed pharmaceuticals more transparent.
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Book Pick From The Library
For those of you who want to know even more more about the medications you and your elders are taking, I can heartily recommend "The Pill Book."
I use my copy so often that the cover is falling off - guess I'll have to spring for a new one soon. At less than $7 and more than 1200 pages covering 1800 drugs, and with color photographs of the most widely prescribed, it's a steal. You can read about it on Amazon: http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0553584790/theeldercar09-2
or Barnes & Noble:
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If you prefer to go directly to the online bookstores, use the Search function to find and order "The Pill Book."
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Elder CareTip
Store similarly shaped containers with different types of products in separate locations. For instance, hair sprays and bug killers both come in similar aerosol containers. Both are often used in the bathroom. It would be easy for someone with poor vision or dementia to pick up the wrong container.
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In any moment of decision the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing.
Theodore Roosevelt
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If you have a caregiving question please send it along . If you have a question, there are probably lots of people who have the same question who
haven't asked. If I don't know the answer I'll do my best to find someone who does.
This way, we'll all learn together.
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Browse around as much as you'd like.
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That's it for this time,
Molly
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